For the first time since finishing the cotton harvest, I actually felt "well" enough to do something this weekend.
I went to Big Spring for Callie's basketball game. It wasn't pretty. They got their butts beat and handed to them. But a late breakfast took the sting out of the defeat.
Afterwards we returned to Roscoe for a while before Georgiana headed to Abilene.
Sunday morning I woke early and showered and dressed for church in Abilene. I was running ahead of schedule so I picked Georgiana up.
I am not really sure what is going on at Southern Hills. They have rolled two services into a single service on their campus and they are still doing bar church. A year ago there was no way you could seat everyone in a single service.
Last year the worship minister was terminated, then the pulpit or preaching minister was re-assigned, then the search began for a new preaching minister, then the family minister resigned, then the former preaching minister who had been re-assigned resigned his new position.
The last two times I have been there I have not seen a couple of the elders, but I figured they were attending the other service. Now I don't know.
After church we went to HEB and Georgiana bought groceries. I spent part of my time reading labels and researching different items.
Georgiana and I are trying a new diet program and they warn of processed foods and such. True to their claims, nearly every item I looked at contained what they warned about.
This diet encourages people to skip meals and to fall off their diet one day a week. I am trying to decide if yesterday was the first day of my diet and I fell off or if I hadn't started it yet!
After grocery shopping we returned to Georgiana's home and she fixed "hold over" sandwiches for us. She is much more dedicated and determined at this stage because she is giving up artificial sweetener and diet coke.
Hold it right there. I may have to draw the line at diet coke.
Actually the last time I lost weight I cut drastically down on diet cokes and drank unsweetened cold brew tea. So in all honesty, there maybe something there.
I have to admit I was disappointed in the results so far of the diet because Georgiana had been on it longer than me and I figured if she turned sideways I wouldn't be able to see her. Oh well, so much for two days.
LOL!
For recreation yesterday afternoon, we went to the movies and saw the Wolf of Wall Street. Leonardo DiCaprio is the star. He does a remarkable acting job. In fact at one time in a mad rage I thought he had turned into Jack Nicholson. Now if you are offended by language, drug use, nudity and sex, you need to go blind folded and with ear plugs. It has an enormous amount of all of the above.
The thing that really struck me was the excesses in every area of their lives. There was never enough of anything to satisfy them. Not enough money, not enough drugs, not enough sex. Of course their clients were footing the bill for all of this.
At the beginning of the movie Matthew McConaughy's character told Jordan Belfort that the goal was to get rich and to forget the clients.
A real eye opener. It was very hard for me to comprehend people living like this.
In the end Jordan Belfort was convicted of numerous crimes and sentence to 36 months in Federal Prison and to pay 110 million is restitution. He served 22 months in a country club prison and to date has paid only $12M in restitution.
Our day was capped of by going to Texas Roadhouse and having dinner.
I returned to Roscoe about nine o'clock and not a creature was stirring! I checked on Memama before checking out the pro bowl and going to bed to read.
I will say it was an interesting twist to the pro bowl where there is no AFC NFC teams. Jerry Rice and Deion Sanders drafted their teams players. Rice won by one in the end.
On a sad note, I have read all my Christmas books. So now I am re-reading them at a much more leisurely pace. I am reading "THE WALK" series and had read the first two installments, The Walk and Miles to Go in prior years. For Christmas I received the third and fourth installments in the series, Road to Grace and Step of Faith. (In between I have squeezed in Art Briles' Tragedy to Triumph "Looking Up" and John Grishams latest Theodore Boone The Activist). The final installment of the series of Alan Christofferson's diary of his walk from Seattle to Key West is due in another couple of months.
I am eagerly waiting and may order it in hopes of getting it prior to the official release date.
Pat left this morning to take Memama and Chris to Dr. Bowman's in Dallas. He is their eye doctor who did the corneal transplants on them both.
Pat had come out late yesterday and packed Memama's clothes, laid out what she was to wear, and gave instructions as to when finished using your hair brush and tooth brush put them in your bag. It seems the only thing Pat could not find was Memama's hearing aids. So I was given that task.
When I made sure Memama was up, I called to be sure when the departure time was. Memama walked into the kitchen and after seeing her overnight bag and hanging clothes, asked me, "Am I going some where?"
I reminded her that today was the day they were going to see Dr. Bowman. "Oh yes, I remember now", she responded.
She insisted on cooking breakfast, and as I ate she drank coffee and juice. Finally I told her she had twenty minutes to get dressed for the trip.
I began looking for hearing aids. Their most popular hiding place, under the bed, yielded nothing. I checked on her bed's headboard. No luck. I unmade her bed. No luck. I went into her bathroom and began looking in drawers. No luck. I checked every table between the kitchen and her room. No luck. I looked at the kitchen window. No luck. I flipped her recliner over. No luck. I looked at her side table. No luck. On the other side of her chair is a TV tray. No luck. Finally I began looking through a magazine rack beside her chair. Success. Both were there although the batteries were fun down. I took them into the kitchen and replaced the batteries and removed and installed new filters, completing this task just as Pat walked in.
Pat quickly gathered what Memama had forgotten and loaded her bags, hanging clothes, walker and cane into the car. As I stood at the door I could hear Pat and Memama arguing. Pat told her to get in the front and Memama wanted to let Chris sit there. Memama won and Pat put her in the back seat. I could hear Pat telling Memama, "I am not going to fight with two hard headed people this entire trip!"
I kind of look for them back late tonight, if Memama is traveling comfortably. In addition to her pain patch, I gave her a pain caplet prior to Pat's arrival.
Their plan was to stop by and see Betsy and Scottie on their way to Parkland. Pat called Betsy and Betsy told her they would meet them down in the lobby, they didn't want them to see the one bedroom apartment Shannon had downsized them to. I wasn't even aware of this taking place, but obviously Betsy is not happy with it.
Oh well, we do what we have to do.
With Betsy's health issues and Scottie's memory issues, they are where they need to be. In a good environment, with neighbors and help nearby.
Memama's appointment is at 4:00 and Chris's appointment is at 4:45. Dr. Bowman's office instructed them to be prepared to be there for an hour and a half. This is a rare occasion that they have appointments late in the day. Usually they will go down the night before and have early appointments the following day.
Due to their last appointments falling near Christmas, Pat cancelled and rescheduled and this was what she got.
17 for the low tonight and tomorrow night. Batton down the hatches.
FATHER, thank YOU for all YOU do. Help us to always be anchored in YOU and YOUR values. I pray for safe travel for Pat and Memama and Chris and that they will get good reports from the doctor.